
We are better than this. No, really.
Many of us read William Golding’s Lord of the Flies in school. On one level, it’s an adventure tale about a group of British school boys marooned on a tropical island. The island is a paradise, providing everything they need to survive, but through their fears of an imagined “beastie,” they slowly descend into savagery. The novel appeared in 1954, less than a decade after the Second World War, where much of the world had descended into real-time savagery, killing between 70 and 85 million people. Golding’s novel became a dark allegory on human nature.
In 1965, six boys from Tonga became shipwrecked on a far less hospitable island. Presumed dead, they survived for more than a year by working together. This real-life account of survival through cooperation stands as a stark counter-argument to Golding’s pessimistic tale and provides the starting point for Dutch historian Rutger Bregman’s case that humanity is fundamentally good. Bregman (Utopia for Realists) argues that our capacity to cooperate, to trust and work together has been basic to our species’ survival and evolution. Over the millennia, we have learned that it’s in our best self-interest to get along. It’s in our DNA.
Yet much of Western thought has led us to believe that people are basically sinful, selfish creatures, not to be trusted. Bregman contends that we are better than this, and who we believe ourselves to be affects how we act. Offering evidence from anthropology, archaeology, social science, and yesterday’s news, he suggests humanity’s default mode has been cooperation rather than competition.
In advocating on behalf of the better angels of our nature, Humankind becomes a welcome antidote to the easy cynicism and debilitating despair many of us are feeling today. Which is not to deny the darker angels ever whispering their fears of a “beastie” in our ears. As social animals, we want to please, to belong, to be accepted. Paradoxically, these same ingrained traits have also contributed to the dark side of tribalism, too often pitting Us against Them, and resulting in the brutal wars, cruelties, and massacres that have been part of human history.
He offers a parable: An old man says to his grandson: ‘There’s a fight going on inside me. It’s a terrible fight between two wolves. One is evil—angry, greedy, jealous, arrogant, and cowardly. The other is good—peaceful, loving, modest, generous, honest, and trustworthy. These two wolves are also fighting within you, and inside every other person too.’ After a moment, the boy asks, ‘Which wolf will win?’ The old man smiles. ‘The one you feed.’
If we believe most people can’t be trusted, that’s how we’ll treat each other, to everyone’s detriment. Few ideas have as much power to shape the world as our view of other people. Because ultimately, you get what you expect to get. If we want to tackle the greatest challenges of our times–from the climate crisis to our growing distrust of one another–then I think the place we need to start is our view of human nature.
from Humankind
Rutger Bregman
Little, Brown and Company
This review first appeared in The Columbia River Reader (June 15, 2026.) Reprinted with permission.









